Stages of Illness
• Diagnosis
• Treatment
• End of treatment
• Check ups
• Recurrence
Coping
• Coping refers to the specific thoughts and behaviours a person
uses in his efforts to adjust
• Coping style is the long-term style that an individual tends to
use across a variety of life situations
• Coping strategies
– Problem focused
– Emotion focused
– Meaning focused
Coping and Stress
• Is this a threat ?
• Can I cope?
Stress = Perceived Demands
Perceived Resources
From Stress to Distress
Risk Factors
• Social Isolation
• Low socio-economic status
• Alcohol or drug abuse
• Prior psychiatric history
• Recent losses/bereavement
• Prior experience with illness
• Inflexible and rigidity of coping
• Pessimistic philosophy of life
• Absence of a belief system
• Multiple obligations
Cognitive Model
Thoughts
Feelings
Behaviour
Mind Body Interactions
Actively holding back our thoughts and feelings takes considerable
energy. Research shows that holding back, effects our immune system,
our heart and the biochemical working of our brain, putting people
at risk for both major and minor illnesses
Pennebaker 1990
Why Communicate
• In 1983 Sandra Beall and John Pennebaker had 46 students write for
15 minutes a day on 4 consecutive days. Their depression was
assessed on mood logs and the number of visits to the doctor used as
a measure of health.
• Group A wrote about the emotional impact of a traumatic topic
• Group B wrote about the facts of an traumatic topic
• Group C wrote both about the emotions and the facts
• Group D wrote about superficial topics.
Disclosure
• People who wrote about a trauma felt worse immediately afterwards
• People who wrote about their deepest thoughts and feelings has a
50% drop in visits to the health centre
• Improved mood on follow up
• More positive outlook
• Greater physical health
• Re evaluated the meaning of the trauma
One of the essential components of emotional processing is the full
subjective experience of emotions in present moment awareness
Greenberg and Safran 1987
Managing Feelings
• Goal is to be able to feel your feelings fully and express them
and move on. They are the weather of your psyche.
• The expression of emotion offers a way to make sense of traumatic
experiences and integrate then into a new coherent view of the self.
• This reduces the effort involved in suppression of emotional
experiences and is less likely to inter with daily thoughts and
activities.
Becoming aware
• Tune into yourself
• What do I feel
• Where in my body
• Expand your awareness around the feeling
• Move towards it rather than away
• Be a friend to it
• Identify the feeling
• Sad, Happy, Fearful
• Breath it in
Self Care
• Create a private space and time each day to allow your feelings to
surface
• Breathing
• Checking your thinking
Catastrophic Thinking
Self Blame/Blaming Others
• Moving into a more constructive mindset
I am only human
I am allowed make mistakes
Finding Balance
• Achieve a better balance between your own needs and the needs of
others.
• Going into partnership with your body
• Dealing with Feelings
• Becoming assertive and collaborative